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Why Do You Have a Kink?

August 05, 2022 3 min read

What does it mean byyour kinks?

Kink can be any number of things, but I am going to use it as an umbrella term for anything that falls under the category of unconventional sexual activity. So, kinks include bondage, BDSM, domination, exhibitionism, and any other activities that fall outside of traditional sex.

The definition of non-traditional means different things to different people, but in most contexts, non-traditional means anything that falls outside of romantic, intercourse-based sex between two people. There are things that range from bondage likeBDSM collars,handcuffs,ropes or restraints, to practices like public humiliation, domination/submission, and group sex.

What causes a kink?

We often experience kinks without even realizing it. It's pretty easy to get into BDSM without even knowing it. It may be with toys, or etcetera. You may be curious about the lifestyle or just want to try something new, but you don't want to get into it blind.

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We develop kinks during many stages of life

The roots of a person's sexual kink are subjective. We try to put people into boxes, and frankly, your sexual kink is subjective. We’re all complex. That’s why we need to learn how to understand each other. For example, when someone starts a passion for leather, maybe it was because their first partner was a macho dude and wore lots of leather jackets.

It's not necessarily a matter of age, of gender, or your experiences in life. It can happen without any particular circumstances, so it isn't always linked to some event in your past. There are many different kinds of knots to discover, each one attached to a certain action and affecting your body in some way.

However, a study claims that people who were spanked as children have a predilection towards spanking during sex. Also, as pornography watching increases and more sexual acts are available to people, there are a lot of kinks discovered through puberty.

It's already there in our imagination

It's very common for people to think about something taboo. Most people will have some crazy sexual thoughts in their lifetime. Humans are very active in their imaginations. Thinking about it is one thing, but acting on it is another. The fact that fewer people act on their kinks seems pretty obvious.

Research suggests that most people have had a sexual fantasy about something kinky before, so most of us do seem to be a little weird. The number of people who actually want to act on their fantasies is smaller than the number of people who have engaged in them. Fantasy, desire, and behavior are all different, so it depends on which one you're talking about.

Should I be kinky?

The short answer is yes. It's important to experiment sexually so you can discover what you like and what you don't like. Kinkiness,drastically improves our sex lives. If you are worried about feeling or looking stupid for the first time, this article tackles a similar topic.

Developing a good relationship with your kink/s

If you're into kink and want to enjoy it during your sex life, there are tons of options available. It’s difficult to develop healthy, comfortable relationships with sexual behaviors that aren’t conventionally accepted in society. Kinky fun is an important part of your sexual experience, and as long as you decide what you want to try out, you'll be able to have a healthy appreciation for

Remember that kinks are extremely common. Most people have had sex fantasies before, so stop feeling weird about having those thoughts. However, an unhealthy relationship could also be your downfall. Try to "responsibly" handle your kinks, seek consent from your partner, and seek a professional when things start to get out of hand.

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