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Roleplaying 101

August 07, 2022 5 min read

How does Roleplay work in sex?

A sexual role play is a role play that has a strong erotic element. Sexual fantasy is the act of creating a scenario or role play that may involve two or more people acting out roles, and may include foreplay, and may be sexually arousing. Roleplaying is an effective means of overcoming sexual inhibitions. Many people find it a healthy way to explore their sexuality.

How seriously the play is taken depends on the participants, and the scenario could be anything from simple and makeshift to detailed and elaborate, including costumes and a script. The role play can involve a fantasy based on any social role and could include any kind of sexual fetish desired by the participants. There are items or clothing that can be experienced as erotic or one or more participants being nude. Sexual bondage and erotic humiliation are some of the elements of the role play. Like this handcuff collection from Cuffstore, and more.

The popularity of the Internet has also allowed for online sexual encounters, known as cybersex, which may involve roleplay.

What are some good Roleplay ideas?

I've been creating my own role play scenes for years, and I can tell you, it's a lot of fun! However, it's not always easy. Sometimes it's hard to find things that work for everyone involved. Sometimes you have to be flexible. And sometimes it's just plain awkward. But when it works, it's worth every minute of the struggle.

Housewife and Handyman

The housewife handyman scenario has always been a crowd favorite and you can also be a house husband and handywoman. There is something sexy about someone who's come to clean your 'pipes'. You don't need much to pull it off because your apartment or house is already the perfect backdrop.

Professor and Student

Many of us think about the teacher we wished we were "doing". I know I've always had a crush on my algebra teacher. The most powerful role play scenario involves a naughty professor and his sexy student.

The whole student/teacher paradigm is very hot, but becomes problematic when you're thinking in terms of age appropriate consent. Falling prey to that is NOT sexy.

Nanny and Hot Single Mom/Dad

The hot single parent banging the nanny has extreme appeal. The single parent is broken hearted and looking for love just waiting for the wonderful nanny to come in and swoop them up. Everyone loves MILFs/DILFs right?

Uptight Boss and Employee

Have you ever had a boss that you lusted for, even though he or she was a total asshole? Yes, a power exchange is what gets the juices flowing. Angry sex is HOT. Feelings of passion are very similar to feelings of rage when someone pisses you off.

Good Cop and Bad Cop

You're partners in the force, each other's shields and greatest allies. You have to rough up a criminal. Each of you has a role. You give way to your lust after an intense interrogation.

Doctor and Nurse

Sometimes being a medical professional is hard and you have to let off steam with a coworker. Nurse and doctor costumes are very popular on Halloween. They're tempting.

Batman and Poison Ivy

We all want to be superheroes because they're larger than life. What's not to love about super strength and being able to walk through walls?

Pretending to be a superhero is really fun, and with superpowered, superhero sex, it's even better. This is a dynamic that applies to just about any mix of your favorite superheroes and villains.

Librarian and Reader

If you think you've never thought about having sex with a librarian, you're lying. This is a sexy fantasy because of how books and intelligence are often thought of as unattractive.

Athlete and Coach

Coaches are very attractive. They are very sexy, strong, and powerful. This makes them very desirable. It's kind of weird how some locker rooms are so disgusting, and yet for some reason, so many people want to screw in them.

How do you roleplay for beginners?

It's a simple concept - if you can role play in the privacy of your own head, you can do it in the real world. By pretending to be someone else, you gain a better understanding of yourself and how you behave in different situations. Whether you're into a more traditional or a more experimental approach to role playing, there are plenty of things you can do that will help you to make this form of play more than just a novelty.

Make a game plan

Whether it’s in the bedroom or on the stage, it’s important to have a game plan for role play so you can both enjoy what comes next. You're not required to plan out a full evening, but it will help if you do. To really step into the experience you'll need to be in character and deeply commit.

Do you want to dress up? Use accessories? Decorate your space appropriately? No matter your preferences for role-playing, you will need to tackle this one together as a team, so be sure to share your ideas and what you'd like to try.

Start out small with the props

What's cool about this is that you don't have to be full on in order to be successful or get laid. Some people say it's best to start out slow to avoid feeling like an idiot. Don't be afraid to start working your way up, even if it seems like there's a barrier in your way.

When it comes to cosplay, you might want to do more than just put a few pieces together. Roleplay can get quite tricky, but if you start small, it’ll be easier to get into character.

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Don’t be afraid to laugh and be silly

At first, this may seem kind of silly, simply because it is! So what? Have fun. It's the beginning of a journey. And at the same time, it's a way of indulging some of your most long standing and most potent fantasies and exploring new territory with your partner.

If you are afraid to look silly, read more in our article here about Overcoming Awkwardness in Roleplaying.

Don't think that you’re incapable of getting into character. Laughing and being silly means that you’re having a good time together. Slow down and take your time, trust the process.

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